Online Dating

Do you every wonder why online dating is the thing?

Here is what I understand, and why it is there. Back in 2006 Facebook and other sites were booming. It is an opportunity to start a new trend for MSN. Remember the days when you had messenger and talk to people just like today, but now it is more complex.

Waking up and finding out that there are million of websites to go on to find our person of interest. Now, how do you approach this? I would not try the honest approach as most men will to find love. I have attempted multiple websites and find that being honest does not work. People in this world have been corrupted and discourage to understand a person's honesty online. I have been honest, and nothing has closure in it.

Online life has changed due to the lies that men do to women. Causing them to not try correctly on the right path of happiness. I find that people should just network within their circles, and have a meet up. That way people find their soulmate sooner or later.

People try to much on hook up sites, and I have a huge list of websites that can follow that point. Lets start off with Tinder. This is to hook up with people and match based on images, and conversation. I have attempted, and accept all women, but nothing came along. The next one was POF back when it was booming. I have created one profile and yet nothing. I had some friends create another profile that will attract women, and nothing. No matter what I say or do, online dating sucks.

I have attempted Bumble, and nothing came through. This website is where women choose men. I have tried to be honest, and I had one hit, and it was my old coworker. She stated it was weird seeing a fellow worker on a dating site. I have nothing of interest online clearly or is it faith that I will be alone?

The next website was Badoo, for those who do not know what this website is...it is for Plus size people. I had not one single hit. I am truly one of the unlucky ones.

Then, I went back to Eharmony and I did the profile again on what I like and what will match, so I can do better in my life. I messaged a lot of women and I have put my interest out there,  and put what I want in life paths. I have not gotten one respond.

Another website I went to was my own culture website called Shaddi which mean marriage. I have done all the information and I have even attempted to pay. I have not one single hit since of the age of 21, and now I am 30. Then, I have narrowed another website down called Gujratmatromony which is similar to Chirstanmingle.  I have done my description and give all my information down. Nothing has happened.

Before I get to my final website, I have to say the pattern of mine is getting weak. I use to get a lot of girls online back when Facebook was booming and meeting new people. All the people I met in my past have met their soulmate and life partner.

I later then decide to try Match, and finally I found someone who I was interested in and after long and hard. I message the girl of my dreams. I told her that I would not want to pay for something when I know a person. I asked for coffee meet, and see if the person was interested. NO dice, pure blank, no responds. Afraid of the results, I have shutdown every possible website I signed up on. Due to lack of people online. 

My friends are going insane on how many websites I went online could not find a girl. Since all the hate in my life has gone towards the websites. I have approached many women, drank heavily, cause so much problems in my surroundings, and lost friendship along the way.

Causing countless arrangements with friends, and family, because I was unhappy and cannot find happiness in myself. I do not know when it will happen, but when it comes time. It will be notice.

Bottom line, online dating is not for everyone. Even though, it is the right fit for everyone that is looking for an easy catch. There are women I know that uses these websites and they have found sex partners, and relationships off them. It all depends on the spur of the moment, and how good the profile is attracted. If they connect and if everything is working out well. Boom, there is spark and lasting relationship.

If you really want to know what else I tried here is a list: Innercircle, perfect match, the league, desidate, meetup(social circle, but can be dating) , wechat, coffeemeetsbagel, and lumocity, lavalife, and zoosk.

Do yourself  favor, do not go online. Just go to social parties that are "bar crawls" or "hobby events"

Thanks,

Mistry