Toxicity

Have you ever wondered if your lifestyle is truly toxic and unhealthy?  While growing up you will have look deep and think about everything you do and what is next in line. Every time you look at yourself. Do you see a demon or angel? Why I ask, because either you will be good and happy with your life or just keep looking for darkness to feed the demon. It is usually an unusual itch that you cannot control.

Think about what kind of people you have and what you deal with everyday. This brings back my whole culture and love concept earlier. Do you keep fighting yourself and deny the truth with toxicity or just walk away?  There is a lot of thinking a person has to do before deciding to break it off, keep it going, take micro breaks, or have many intimate conversations to all people.

No matter what the situation you are in; it will be hard to accept. It will take time to sooth or cope with acceptance. It is like a substitution addiction, for real drugs and alcohol.

 I love to watch a show called "Shameless"  its a dark comedy on HBO that is based off the UK version. There is a character named "LIP" and he was struggling with alcoholism and after many years he finally accepted it and started to fix it.  He look towards smoking, taking on problems, working a lot, and looking all ways to do things to keep him out of reach of alcohol. I would say he is looking for toxic relationship to keep him busy. He will eventually will admit he has a problem one day, and fix it somehow. Till that day comes on that show. I will attempt to cure it as best I can.

Now back to reality, people these days feed off each other's emotions and look towards their satisfaction. Now, I have not figured it out yet, but  it seems it is a standardized approach of " only a person can change for themselves" this is coming from all "self help programs."  People will be thick headed or just do not care. There is a supportive system approach ,but all parties must agree and understand each other. IF that's a IF they all understand they are toxic within their circle of life and working their regression and built up frustration it will work or just die out in relationships within your lifestyle.

Based on your social status, and life it will be about making points and working it out with other. Then only then it will work if you work as a team.

This is best approach I find that will help yourself succeed in life and have a happy livelihood.

Mistry out.