Relationships

What is a relationship?

Have you every considered to workout different lines of relationships? Open, Common, Platonic, Sex, Action, Hobby, Its Complicated,  Friendship, Bros, Babe, Besties, BFFs, Ride or Die  or Life Partners?  If you look at these concepts it will make you think about these terms. Over time, I find that these "relationship" status are just words and just to be labeled as a lovely pair.

Once you are labeled it will show that people you know are considered an item, thing, or someone of interest. Personally, I would suggest they should look into the bigger picture. Is it just a perspective of life choice or actually being labeled. Sometimes, I wonder if marriage is just another label or a binding arrangement, for lifestyle.  Choose where to go, what to do next, have a family, go to places, or just do nothing. These are examples are what a person will think about as they progress in their path of life.

I find that relationship is just a common tool, for your circle of life. Choose your words correctly and find out how to put the pair into a category in order to be notice. People tend to assume or think that they are together. Over a period, the person will sooner or later will think..Are we in a relationship? What is the kind of end goal? What will I achieve? Is this the right fit?  There is no turning back once you decide this path.

Is there a way to fuck up your message in common ground? Yes, have a good time with people and then ruin the relationship status with someone who you think is not doing a good job in their lifestyle.  Then and only then where you can walk away from desire of interest. To repair this issue it will take time. No matter how much time it will take. People will come to realize that whatever they said may or may not affect them.

Relationship comes in all forms, and people do not realize how hard it is to keep up the charade. We endure all obstacles, have fun with others, show off good vibes, and then poof. It all goes away. What do you next?  Work on the broken status of any person, try your best to squash the beef, continue to show you care, but then keep screwing up.

No matter how hard the situation is...always remember there is no turning back. Whatever the handicap or situation that occurred or happened. You can never let it go. IT will eat you alive, you can tell yourself to work on your mind. Seek help from a therapist, or talk about your feelings? Anything is disposable, but  it all depends on the other party and who you are with to accept your need or values.

One cannot tell how the person is feeling after it is broken. Pandora's box is a hard one to crack unless you have the smartest brain. All I can say,  no matter who you are with, or hard to maintain a relationships. It is  just another word to amend the status. Especially, in today's society where anything can happen.

If there is advice I can give...always give good vibes no matter how bad the people you are around. If you feel that the vibe is going no where. Just walk away; even though, you are looking for attention and build a common ground.  Let those people enjoy their, so called positive vibes. If one person ruins your approach to a good time. Just walk away. Just walk way. Always remember "Is it worth it" these are the key words that have to be in your head in order to have a good time.

Peace-out,

Mistry