Dating Life

 There comes a time where dating, and relationship will help the need to set up your goals, and bring life to your self-ratified. 

I have been dating, talking, and managing my time effectively over the years. One date at a time people say. I would like that if I got enough dates. I have been  on  18 dates, and many social events. No matter where you are. People tend to ask and want the same thing. "To live, laugh, love with someone" quote from someone I know. 

When people answer male or female in manner such as " I want someone to be there for me, and build a future, and be the foundation for me."  This is the most genetic term people use. I find that when people use this term, and understanding. I find that my soul dies inside. The reasoning behind this because it is about yourself reflection, and not what your partner can do for you. Partners will go above and beyond for their soulmate. No matter what obstacles happen. The soulmate will be there. 

 

People tell me, it will happen in a natural manner. I found that it double downs on your own goals. If your serious enough then you and your potential partner will put the cards on the table, and make sure things get done. Friends, family, and mutual acquittances will happen and will turn the worst side of you. 

Anger and judgement will be affected no matter how controlling the situation is. A friend once told me that if your with your soulmate. They know whatever your thinking, feeling, and even their next move.  Over time, if the individual who did find someone, and thinks that their life isn't perfect. Will ruin themselves and go in a transitional state of mind. That mind set will be darkness, and unhappiness of oneself. If they think themselves as a piece of shit, and have no more morels. Then that means they been through a lot. 

Dating is like a book and table readings it must be clear and precise. Otherwise you do not know what the fuck is happening. 

In time, dating will be come like a workout and plateau, and figure out the next moves. I find that my next move is done. I have been socially talking to many people, and networking. Hopefully, one date will be the right one, and last one.  

I found this girl, and we have not formally went out and asked serious questions, and knowing what exactly what each other want. Which is why I get annoyed when anyone says they just want someone to be with in long-term, and be happy. 

Goals and objectives is what makes a relationship stronger. The old ways of arrangement for foreigners work in a way of family history and values.

 Music is always a must in my book. Your life should reflect the songs you listen daily. It is why people tend to listen to the same music over and over again no matter how annoying the song will be after time. This is for yourself to  get the feeling of self reflection, and enjoy your life story unfolding. 

In the end, the dating circle is rough and the questions you should really ask yourself. What do you really want?

I will leave you with that.

Mystery Man out.