Well, it comes to a time where love is a must. How much is PDA needed. Only question is why is it important.
While growing up it is hard to say which value to use. Do you follow the commercial success of modern society that shows PDA or just bottle up and show your PDA in other ways.
I find that PDA is an emotional tool to people. Jealousy and self doubt can come to terms. When you see someone with their significant other. Indian people have evolved and become more PDA. That only for the younger generation due to the Indian movies that recent years ( 2009) came out.
PDA became popular a lot and still we need to respectively show limited access. Social media has become a huge success and PDA has been popular with different challenges per say. Only recently I came across "first picture challenge". It makes me wonder do I need to see this crap?
Like literally, it's enough I seen your kids, pictures over the years and seeing the greatest things over the years you and your spouse have built. But reminding someone of your past. Kind of ruins what have you done / accomplished.
Did you ever think that it will impact another person who is struggling, for being single and alone? It's more self defensive to protect ourselves against what could happen. If we didn't appreciate the things we have.
This whole PDA is just looking for an emotional support " pet". The reason I said that. Because people with specific spouces show emotional love, for both parties. If one person is not emotional on behalf of their spouce. Then you have the old school Indian mentality where PDA isn't important.
Please understand, PDA should be in the middle and limitations are needed in this day in age. Public opinion using the PDA is a hit or miss. While outside I recommend you look before you leap, for that kiss in public.
If I see this, it brings an opportunity of chills and what not. If you were me. You are probably may or maynot be thinking "where is my partner" or I should see that girl and grab her and kiss her as well.
Having PDA is the most important thing to keep limited. If this rule is followed then we would have less emotional and needful people in our lives.
I am the one he likes PDA, but with limited access. But home life with Indian parents are hard enough. PDA isn't a necessary skill to show in the house and having a home life.
I look at my older generation of family and PDA isn't shown. They just do their own thing and when it comes to household things. There is PDA in food, companionship and conversation. There isn't much hugs or kisses going on. As the other generation get older. Their kids learn off them and hopefully take in the same skills of affection.
But there are others who take a different approach. They change their parents and make them show PDA. Overtime, it gets old and I would think it would revert back to their old-fashioned ways.
I am hopeful that one day PDA can be fined. I have read somewhere that some places in the world it's illegal upon. I have a feeling it's the middle-eastern culture since they are more strict and they even marry within their extended family.
I hope that you like this rant, but that's myself thinking and writing.
Much appreciated,
Mistry Man,
You only die once.
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