Love

What is love and it's true definition? Have you ever thought to yourself that love can come in many shapes and beliefs.

A person can love oneself on need, and will shape others to show how much they are in love with your ego. As time goes on, that one person can change and will turn into mutual love.  I would say love will come into possession, need, mutual, and materialistic.

By giving this approach, I state the obviousness. Love will diffidently come in many different forms.  Depending on the person's past and how they were treated. Love will shape a person's perspective on life, and support.  Mutual love will not happen. If a person puts all the effort in one person and that person cannot give out the same approach and respect. I would say that person is only love themselves and no one else. Those who shall follow will create additional baggage.

We look towards other in order to compare ourselves and see the mutual bond to bring success and desire closer. I am going to use the show "The Big Bang Theory"  as Howard and Leonard both have love for Penny and Bernadette. Their character on the  show brings out the one sided love, but then eventually came to a mutual understanding/bond to start loving each other. Penny and Bernadette had no interest in the boys due to their interest and activities, but slowly they adapted and accepted who they are and created their own club and activities to make the boys obsessed in being apart of their fun.   It is called growth and moving forward.

If two people have mutual love, for each other then they will have a balance life style. If only one person is weighing in on everything, and continuously. Thus, will cause an unhealthy bond and slavery, for that one person.

I find that the "nice guy" approach doesn't work and will fail in love due to the lack of commitment and how many people are involved.  Depending on the person it could be many different ways.  The nice guy will win in the end or the nice guy will cause a lot of tension between friends and potential relationships with other people.

When that occurs, it will take a lot of time and effort to cure one virus.

Overall, I  would suggest to others to have a mutual love and respect for other rather than "Left Wing and Right wing" performance.

Thank you,
Mistry